Moving Too Quickly

Posted on November 7, 2011 by

get your ex backWhen a man or woman is trying to win back the affections
of their ex, way too many times they start to make some headway but then, kind of like when a salesman is close to a sale and then keeps talking, they go too far when the ex shows signs of reattachment.

Let’s take an example …

Tom calls Sally and they set up a place to talk and it goes pretty smoothly. But Tom, rather than leaving after 20 minutes or so, continues and tries to move forward too fast.

I mean even if Sally brings up the possibility of getting back together first, Tom’s response should NOT be one of ecstatic joy.

He’d be much better off staying calm and saying something like…

“Let’s take it slow and see how it goes.”

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Get Your Ex Back

Posted on October 19, 2011 by

Are you trying to get your ex back?

Answer these questions.

  • Did you just experience a break up?
  • Are you wondering how to go get an ex back?

get your ex backI don’t think it’s a stretch to say almost every person has experienced some kind of a break up at some point in their life. Many just move on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back. The bottom line is sometimes a break up is necessary.

But if you do want to get an ex back, rest assured that there are options for you.

The fact is, 90 percent of the time there is no reason why you cannot get an ex back after a break up, providing that you know what steps are necessary to win your ex back.

The first step in learning how to get an ex back is to determine what exactly happened that caused the break up. You may not be able to go back and fix it, but you can learn from the mistakes that were made and can try to learn and grow from the experiences.

The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. Or vice-versa.

In other words, you can get your ex back if you know how, but if you want to make it work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place.

The next step is to make certain you don’t appear needy.Maybe you honestly feel you can’t live without him/her, but there is no point in making this obvious. Stay strong and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, you increase your chances of getting back together with your ex.

Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate.

Reread that. All that accomplishes is to show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you’re doing OK, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.

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